Great perspective and wisdom, thanks! It is very good to see you, I hope all is well with you!

96Mike C March 21, 2012 at 12:24 am She’s quite attractive. I know she will have suitors, and some of them would probably put her in the girlfriend box if she didn’t put out right away.

The fact that she is attractive is a huge plus for her in terms of attracting a serious boyfriend. Now we don’t know how promiscuous she has been. I’ll say there is a big difference in perception (at least for me) between say 15-20 and 50-100. Some things you can get beyond,..some you can’t.

Going forward, she has to try to be discerning between the guys who just see her as a hot pump and dump versus the guys who might realistically consider her as a serious girlfriend. IMO, she’ll be asking for more trouble if she shoots for guys with high to very high SMV. If she stays attractive, cultivates good girlfriend qualities, and shoots for realistic guys she shouldn’t have a problem, but it sounds like she has issues to work through.

It was alluded to earlier somewhere, but I grow increasingly convinced that the main “addiction” young women who hookup have is the validation from high status males basically being willing to dump a load in them. You see that running through every story like this from the Duke girl to this one.

““You cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight”

97Charm March 21, 2012 at 12:24 am I would be absolutely 100% convinced that I would be the only guy on campus with whom she would never hook up (betaboy that I was).

This is something I don’t really get. Why? Maybe its because Im neutral with people off the bat and generally expect the worse, but it seems ridiculous to believe this. Beta or not. I wouldn’t assume the person slept around but Id at least expect them to have had sex at least once or twice. If this is a beta thing to do then I guess I see how they get screwed over.

98Megaman March 21, 2012 at 12:25 am @SW


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